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Do it. Dirt and body odors don't come off with just a rinse. Wash your body completely three times before you meet a woman. No foot odor is permitted, period. Try Dolce and Gabanna, Cerruti Image, or Gaultier for men. And don't OVER-do it! No cologne is better than a lot of cologne. One or two squirts, applied an hour before you're going to be meeting women is best. Remember, women notice the details and assume you handle everything else the same way.
Self Image, Self Talk, And Other Self Stuff The way I see it, underpinning all of these outer details and techniques is your self-image, confidence, personality, and all of that other intangible stuff that takes a bit to get under control. So let me address how I got my personal self-image stuff together before I talk about what I do specifically. By the way, this is the most important part of this book.
All of my success has flowed from my attitude and confidence - not the other way around. So if you read nothing else, read this. The Attitude When I first started out learning how to meet women, I remember that I had a feeling inside like "I'm afraid to just walk up to a strange woman and start talking.
I've since learned that none of my worst fears would come true when meeting a new woman. I've met hundreds and hundreds of women over the last few years - and none NONE! have reacted or caused anything to happen that I couldn't handle in the moment. Some women are not interested in meeting someone right now. Some women are lesbians and have no interest in men. Some women are happily married or in a relationship and don't want to meet someone new right now.
Some women are angry. Some are cold. My guess is that in a random group of women, only about 30 of them might be open to meeting someone new right now In a romantic sense.
What this means is that 70 AREN'T interested in meeting someone new. And of the 30 who are interested in meeting someone new, maybe only 15 are nice, friendly, happy people. Do you see where I'm going with this?
If you want to be successful at meeting women, you have to understand that many of the women that you talk to aren't interested. Instead of just moving on to the next woman, they get all uptight and feel bad about it.
I've now learned a better way. I also learned something else that helped me dramatically. I learned that women are used to being approached, flirted with, and picked up on in general by men.
Even women who are what you might call 'average' are approached by men on a pretty regular basis. So when you're about to approach a woman, keep in mind that it's not like you're going to try something that she's never heard of before and shock her. You may not be totally comfortable yet just walking up to any woman, but she'll be relatively comfortable with it. And remember, if she's not interested, it's most likely that she's not interested in anyone right now.
Of course it's true that she might not be interested in your 'type' or you may have acted in a way that she didn't like, but the fact is that no matter what happens, you'll find that it's no big deal. When I first started my journey, I realized that some of the greatest memories that my friends and I have are when something bad happened to one of us.
Looking back, we usually laugh about these things and make fun of each other and ourselves. So I thought about it, and I realized that getting rejected really harshly by a woman would actually be a funny thing. I imagined my best friend and I saying "Hey, remember that time when I walked up to that girl in the mall and said "Hi" and she told me that she doesn't date me who look like Pee Wee Herman?
Ha ha ha ha They may not let you live it down, but at least you can laugh about it! And if you have friends that wouldn't help you laugh about it, then you need some new friends Another part of the attitude equation that I realized is that different women respond to different looks, personalities, etc. One woman might only like men who dress in suits and ties, while another might only like women who dress like bad boy rockers.
Whatever style you develop, DON'T CHANGE IT JUST BECAUSE SOME WOMEN DON'T LIKE IT. The price of big success is having some people dislike you.
So once you find a style that works for you, stick with it, and only change it because YOU choose to! It All Comes Down To Your Skills. Having a problem? You need a new skill. If you have some area of your life that isn't working for you, you probably need a new SKILL. I realized a few years ago that most people look at themselves and say things like "There must be something WRONG WITH ME. I don't know why. I just can't do it. Meeting women comes down to SKILLS.
If you're having a problem in a particular area, get new skills to deal with it. For instance, if you have learned to meet women and get phone numbers, you might start Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women ©, All Rights Reserved. Solution: A new skill. You need to learn the skill of getting women to meet you after making plans. There are many parts to being successful with women, and they all work together. You may already know some of them, you might learn a few more from this book, but if you're missing a key like how and when to kiss a woman, for instance you'll still keep running into challenges.
Remember, if you're having a challenge, you need a skill. So remind yourself of this, and come back to this book to get the information, then practice until you have the SKILL! I began by creating self image exercises based on NLP Neuro Linguistic Programming and Timeline Therapy, and doing them all the time. Read Frogs Into Princes by Bandler and Grinder and The Secret of Creating Your Future By Tad James for more info.
Here's one exercise that's helped me tremendously: First, I close my eyes and imagine a picture of the person that I want to be. I imagine how I'll be dressed, the expression on my face, how I'm standing all the details.
Then, I throw that picture up into the air and have it start raining copies of it all around me for as far as I can see into my past and future all around me. Exercises like these sometimes sound silly, but they help direct your mind towards the you that you want to become.
One area that I've studies extensively is what's commonly called 'internal dialogue' or 'self talk. Most people are talking to themselves all day long. Negative self-talk is, in my opinion, one of the primary causes of low self-esteem, giving up, and a lack of interest in even trying.
If you tell yourself something enough times, you'll begin to BELIEVE it. This new belief will take on a mind of it's own, and start creating it's own self talk. Most people who have negative beliefs also have negative self-talk that creates a self-fulfilling prophecy.
If this is you, STOP RIGHT NOW. I may be the first person that's ever pointed this out to you, so it might sound a little strange. Or, I might be reminding you of Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women ©, All Rights Reserved.
In any event, make a commitment to yourself to start talking positively to yourself and to be encouraging from now on.
Put it on your calendar. Send yourself emails. Do whatever you have to do so you remember to be nice to yourself when you talk to yourself. If you're one of those people that likes being negative, arguing with everything, finding why things can never work for you, and why everyone is wrong, then do me and you a favor and delete this book from your hard drive, and email me to ask for a refund.
You've made a choice to be negative with yourself, and I'm not even interested in helping you see a better way. People who have made the choice to be negative about everything are usually playing out a drama that's beyond what I'm interested in addressing, and probably beyond the power of a book to change. If, on the other hand, you are one of the people that is willing to give new things a try, to say to yourself "I can do something if I choose to" and "I can change if I really want to" then I think you will be successful.
The key here is to begin taking a positive mindset and talking to yourself in a positive way. Here's an exercise for you to do: Take out a piece of paper and write down all the negative thoughts you have about yourself, and all the negative things you say to yourself, and all the areas where a 'positive' outlook would help you.
Then, start writing down positive things you can say to yourself instead, and start saying them. Keep working on this until you stop saying negative things to yourself. This could take you years, like it did for me. But it's worth it, trust me. This one process will improve all areas of your life, so use it everywhere. It's also important to make mental pictures and rehearse the success that you'd like to have. As you're going to sleep, make mental movies of yourself being successful in different kinds of situations and with different types of women.
Mental rehearsal is the next best thing to physically doing something. So do it as often as you can. If you will make a mental movie of the ideal you doing the things that I'm going to teach you, and rehearse in your mind every day, you will see improvement and results. If you don't do this part, you'll be wondering why you can't seem to get it right when you need it.
Can you remember a time when you felt happy and excited? Can you remember a time when you felt powerful and energetic? If you can, then you can HAVE THESE FEELINGS ANY TIME YOU WANT THEM. Most people don't use their memories to help them feel good because they say "Well, that's not really how I'm feeling, I'm just imagining it. You might as well imagine it at times when you need it instead of having it happen on accident!
Here's how to use this: Write down three states that you'd like to be able to put yourself into anytime you'd like. Then, write down three times in your life when you felt each of those states. Finally, close your eyes, and put yourself into each of the three situations that made you feel the state that you want, and do SOMETHING UNIQUE with your body as you're remembering.
For instance, if you'd like to feel powerful and confident, while you're remembering times when you felt this way, breath out quickly while puckering your lips. If you do this process of remembering the states and breathing out quickly at the same time, all you have to do in the future is close your eyes, breath out quickly while remembering the feelings, and you'll have the states that you want. It's like having a push button for feeling good on your body.
Next, you have to practice putting yourself into your three powerful states when you're in different environments. So go different places, and practice getting yourself into your states with distractions, etc. This might take some doing, but once you have it mastered, you'll be able to get yourself into a positive state when you're not feeling it to begin with Could this be useful when you're feeling shy or afraid to meet someone?
I also started keeping a personal journal of everything that I was learning and doing, so I could reflect on it. This was the biggie. I owe Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women ©, All Rights Reserved.
It was the real world guys that were successful in the real world. Like I said, find about 5 different guys so you can get different perspectives and see how it all fits together.
By the way, go read the chapter in Think and Grow Rich about the Mastermind as well. IF YOU DO NOTHING ELSE, DO THIS ONE THING. What Outcome Are You Looking For? Most men that I talk to about this topic really can't explain the EXACT outcome that they're looking for. So let me ask you Are you looking for a one night stands? Are you looking for a girlfriend? Are you looking for a wife?
Are you looking to get this part of my life called 'confidence with women' handled? What is it that you'd like to do? Once you choose an outcome for yourself, you can apply what you're learning to that outcome.
If you have no outcome, then you're going to be like a ship in the ocean with no particular port as your destination. With no target, there is a very small chance that you'll ever be successful.
Take a moment and write down your goal as it relates to women. Then think about that goal as you read the rest of this book. The idea here is to give yourself a framework to work within and that you have to plan.
Failing to plan is planning to fail. If a woman is ATTRACTED to you, half the game is over. In sales, it's much easier to sell your product to someone who's called you and said "Can you help me?
Here's my premise: Women are attracted to men for certain reasons and they go through a specific sequence internally when they are attracted to a man - there is a system, a sequence, a code if you will. And once you know what it is, you can develop a method to create this sequence more often.
You can use this fact that there is a 'genetic mating sequence' to help you. Be Different In An Attractive Way By studying marketing and sales, I've learned that humans are attracted to things that are unique. They are also attracted to things that are superior. So I have a phrase that I use: "Different in a preferential way. What I'm about to share with you is a group of ingredients.
These are the different ingredients that women are attracted to. It's up to you to take what you have, and to use this list to augment your personality in such a way that it becomes attractive to the type of women that you're interested in.
The key is to be different in an attractive way. But make sure that you're not too different! If you get too carried away with this, you'll be outside of the realm of 'normal' and you will wind up hurting yourself. So experiment and test to see what works for you. Your Enemy Is Insecurity and Neediness Insecurity and neediness are two of the biggest obstacles to success with women. Insecurity and neediness are two sides of the same coin. He shows that he's insecure when he ACTS on these needs.
Insecurity shows up when a man does not feel comfortable with who he is or comfortable in the situation that he's in. He acts tentative, weak, and unsure. He tries to put on a show of confidence that is obviously fake. He says things that are out of place in an attempt to get approval. Women detect insecurity and neediness INSTANTLY. Don't touch a woman or crowd her too much in the beginning. Women take this as neediness and insecurity. Instead, lean back and let her become comfortable being around you.
If you talk to much about past girlfriends or other women, or say negative things about them, a woman will judge you to be insecure. If it's obvious to a woman that you will get upset about things easily, then she will judge you to be insecure.
Women like it when you decide what's going to happen, then do it. If you are always asking "Well, what do you think I should do? Just make decisions and go with it. If she has a different idea, she'll let you know. I've known a lot of men who try to act cool or show off to get attention.
This telegraphs to a woman that you're insecure and needy. Don't do it. If you're cool, she'll figure it out without you telling her. This is my favorite. If you're one of these people, just realize that this is a clear demonstration that you're insecure and needy. You may always be right, but being overly argumentative is bad for your sex life. Deal with it. If you really Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women ©, All Rights Reserved. I have read some interesting research that shows that women have a few main categories in their minds that they slot men into.
These are: 1 Not interested at all. Here's the interesting part: If a woman sees a man as a good potential 'long term' mate, she'll usually hold back the sex. On the other hand, if she gets sexually involved with a man, she'll usually still be open to a long-term relationship.
Most men who would like sex make the mistake of doing things like taking women to dinner, buying them gifts, and being romantic in general. This triggers the "Hey, this guy is good long term material" category in the woman's mind, and they hold back sex. But if a man does things to turn a woman on earlier in the game and she gets sexually involved, he can choose where he wants the relationship to go.
Are you with me on this one? Go ask some men and women about this. They'll report back to you what I'm telling you. Women know that if a man is doing all the big romantic things like buying her gifts and taking her out that he is displaying 'courtship' types of behavior. I mentioned earlier that women take hints very well and read into things much more than men.
Unfortunately, men have no idea that their good deeds are being interpreted as long term courtship demonstrations. So what's the solution? This puts the balance of power in your hands, and puts you more in control. I'm going to say it again: A woman will get into a long-term relationship with a man that she's sleeping with. But she won't be as likely to sleep with a man who's courting her. Get it? How Men Usually Find Women I've read several books on mating and courtship behavior among different species of animals Including humans!
The funny thing is that humans do just about the same things as most other animals, with slight variations. If you want to meet women, you have to: 1 Decide what kind of woman you want. It's all the same game. Most men that are failures with women aren't willing to do what it takes to be successful. That's the bottom line. I'm going to give you the secret ingredients that attract women and invite you to combine some of them with your personality in order to attract the kind of women that you're interested in.
The question is "Are you willing to do the work that it will take to be successful? Now, numbers one through five are largely out of your immediate control. If you're not rich, you're probably not going to get rich this week. If you're not famous or tall, you're probably not going to be in a hit movie or grow 6 inches in the next 24 hours. Fortunately, it's the one thing you can change. And it's the one thing that can OVERCOME all of the rest. After you've done what you can to look your best, etc.
you have to develop a personality that's absolutely magnetic. Now let's talk about how you can do just that. By the way, the one quality that attracts women the most and keeps them attracted is not something that they can initially 'look' for. It's the way they FEEL when they are with you or thinking of you. In the end, if you don't have wealth, power, fame, or looks you're going to have to use your personality to make them FEEL good.
In the end, your personality is the most powerful weapon you have. Personality Traits That Attract Women In the next chapter, I'm going to describe MY particular unique personality and the 'character' that I become when I'm meeting women. But before I do that, I'd like to talk about some of the different personality traits that women find most attractive. Some are better when used with others, and some don't work well together.
Here is the list with brief descriptions. I'll talk more about combining after. Humor is just plain powerful with women. If you can keep her laughing, you will go far. Intelligence is sexy IF it's used in a way that's interesting to her. Use your creativity and intelligence to surprise her with ideas, fantasies and unexpected things that charm her.
Education is attractive to women as long as it's used in an interesting way. Some women are actually intimidated by education, as they're not educated This usually works in your favor. If you have class, women pick up on this. Do your shoes and belt match? Do you understand interior design and color contrast? Do you know about different types of wine? Do you like foreign movies?
Do you understand fashion? Do you like Frank Sinatra? Do you enjoy exotic foods? Do you Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women ©, All Rights Reserved.
Do you open all doors for her? Women notice this stuff BIG TIME. Women have an unconscious attraction to dominant men. Same goes for humans. Women don't just like gifts, they like knowing that you were THINKING of them. The gift is a SYMBOL. Women feel the same amount of good inside whether it's a card or a diamond of course the diamond lasts longer, so there are more 'times of feeling good!
But the fact is that women like to know that you're thinking about them. Even if you're telling a woman that you don't like it that she was out with another guy, she'll like it, because it means you were thinking about her! Women don't just notice details, they USE them to try to be attractive and attentive.
If she is wearing a sexy outfit, she didn't put it on by accident. If her hair is done nicely, it wasn't a fluke. Women are very impressed and attracted to men that notice these details. Here's a paradox.
Women are drawn to men that they can't control or predict. They obsess over guys who flirt and give them attention, then don't call the next day. Predictability is only attractive when it comes to choosing a HUSBAND. Then a woman usually wants a man who's VERY predictable. Nothing is a bigger turn off than a killjoy. Some men get upset and pout when a woman is happy, and try to put down the things that she enjoys to sound superior.
This is usually a HUGE mistake. Enthusiasm is infectious and attractive. Women are instantly attracted to men who like to do extreme, adventurous, unusual, even dangerous things. It's exciting. Adventurism is sexy. Women love men that know what they want and go after it. Passion is a sign of life. I'm not talking about the kind of aggressive that turns into date rape.
I'm talking about the kind of aggressive that turns into setting a goal and then going after it with passion and getting it no matter what. Women are magnetically attracted to men who are just a little bit too cocky. Just a little bit. This is a tough one to explain. Many men take this to mean 'overly arrogant' which is not what I mean. If you watch Pierce Brosnan in 'The Thomas Crown Affair' or Clarke Gable in 'Gone With The Wind' or Tom Cruise in 'Top Gun' you'll get an idea of what I'm talking about.
Drives women wild. If you're an expert in an area that is interesting to your kind of woman, this can be attractive. It needs to be presented from a "I know a lot about this, let me show you" perspective, not a "I'm cool and you're not" angle. Women like attention. And interestingly enough, it's better to hint at the attention that you're giving them than to be too overt about it. If you say "I was thinking about you earlier today. And I just wanted to mention that I really like the sound of your voice Most women are used to being pursued by men in one way or another.
If you are indifferent to a woman, make her think that you're only calling because you're bored, and act almost disinterested sexually, they'll often do their very best to get your attention.
Different is good in this case. Again, this drives most women crazy, and even though they'd hate to admit it, it's ultra interesting to them. This is hard to describe. Watch a James Bond movie to get an idea.
And watch 'Dirty Rotten Scoundrels. Charm is powerful because it has a certain 'prince on a white horse' aspect to it. Watch the movie 'Don Juan DeMarco' and listen to how Don Juan interprets the world. Instead of just looking at the surface of a woman, he looks within to find the beautiful part. A romantic imagination sees opportunities for poetic comments, interesting stories, fascinating history, and emotional interpretation in everything.
This is important, as women are constantly sending signals. I'll talk more in a later chapter about this. Women love sex just as much as men do. But just like everything else in life, a great lover is not easy to find. Women become instantly addicted to skillful lovers who know how to make them feel ecstasy and teach them new ways of feeling incredible.
Every woman is slightly different. There is no one magic system that every woman responds to. If what you're doing doesn't work, don't throw out the system try it on a different woman. The most successful men I know will tell you that they are only successful because they are able to accept 'no' and not take it personally. Again, unsuccessful men take a 'rejection' as a personal assault on their inner child.
Don't make this mistake. So start right now. Take a moment and describe the type of woman that you'd like to attract. Then write down the qualities that you think will attract her. Then go to work cultivating these qualities. The idea is to create your own winning combination and then find a place to use it that has the best chances of working for you. You want to come across as interesting, unique, original and desirable.
By the way, if you don't know what the women that you're interested in are attracted to, ASK! That's right, just walk up to them whenever you see one, and say "Can I ask you a question? I'm sure that you're probably in a relationship right now, but will you tell me something I want to know what it is that attracts a woman like you to a man.
What do you look for? As a matter of fact, you'll even find that some will help you in other ways if you ask. They'll go shopping with you, help you decorate your house, help you choose a hairstyle But most guys are afraid to ask, or they feel like a puss because they are asking a woman for help.
Do yourself a favor. If you are having trouble, get help. Women are amazingly generous when they are helping a man get his 'attractiveness' together. In later chapters, I'm going to teach you the specifics of exactly what to say and do in different situations, but here I'd like to teach you some basics about communication that I think will really help you get the right frame of mind. etc… but there are things that most of them have in common.
At some point in their lives, hotties began to be treated differently because they were attractive. than others. Underneath all of this, they are still FEMALE and they are looking for what other females are looking for… Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women ©, All Rights Reserved. Well, for the record, I have no idea.
Let me ask you, if you were a woman that wanted to test a man to see if he will stay in control, how would you do it? Women want a challenge. But, like anything else, if these techniques are used too much, they become worthless… so they must be used with precision and at the right moments. Or they act nervous, etc. But if you are going to act this way, you have to keep it up until the end… and I mean to the end. How can this be when I seem like such a ball buster?
I will surprise them with a thoughtful email, or a card… or I might give them a nice massage… I open doors and walk on the outside of the curb… like I said in my original email, I treat women very well. Here are a couple of rules of thumb that I use: 1. Never give a woman a direct answer… unless the answer is NO.
This is a big one. Hot women can have anything they want. What they want is a challenge… something that keeps their interest.
Hey, I used to think this way… but then I got a clue. Now, I pay very careful attention, and never let her have what she wants. I NEVER give a woman exactly what she asks for… EVER! Always send mixed signals. Tell her I want to be friends, and kiss her.
Tell her that what she just did was unacceptable, then go kiss her. Spank her if she does something nice. Also, respond differently to the same thing. For example, one time if she comes over and sits on my lap, I kiss her.
Another time I push her off… get it? Never be predictable… NEVER. The test is always "Is she laughing, smiling, having fun most of the time? I was watching Chris Rock doing a stand up routine recently. Chris was telling the women in the audience that anytime a man is being nice, it's because he's offering sex or 'dick' as he said.
So if a guy says "Wow, you look great" what he really means is "Wow, you really look great, would you like some dick? It's really no fault of theirs - even very handsome men are notorious for acting arrogant. It's part of being a human. We can all become spoiled easily if the right combination of circumstances arise.
By the way, it's good to keep a "You're spoiled, and I don't really blame you for it you were just luck to be born beautiful and have everyone kiss your ass" attitude Being spoiled, these women act bratty to get their way, but the ass kissing and always getting their way also has another effect.
Since they are so used to being courted and having a man kiss their ass, when you show up and act funny and charming, and don't play into any of their games make fun of them, do the pretend ass-kisser imitation, tell them that they want you, tease them, don't answer ANY of their questions about job, car, home, social, where you go, etc. and even label all of those questions as "Did you get a list of these questions like all the other shallow women around here? it often has the effect of them thinking "Wow, this is sure DIFFERENT.
The humor and arrogance arrogance based on a self-knowing, not an outer success or trappings thing keeps their attention. You can use tricks or props or whatever, but you have to interrupt the woman and first get her attention then you can get to the good part of doing the things that give her the FEELINGS that she wants and playing the part of the MAN that her unconscious wants.
Many experts talk of getting rapport, acting like them, etc. I've found that breaking rapport usually works better for me. Many people recommend rapport techniques when meeting women. But it's a special kind of breaking rapport that I use.
I break rapport in a funny and charming way, which actually ASSUMES rapport from the beginning I insult women that I don't know in a playful way all the time. Her only real choices are to respond internally and externally with "This guy is a jerk, I'm outta here" or "You've got some balls - but you're damn funny - and for some reason, I feel like I know you" When you point out a woman's quirks or insecurities in a way that makes her laugh, you do so many positive things at once.
She can't deny that the things you're saying are true, BECAUSE SHE'S LAUGHING. And she can't really hate you too much, because it's kind of fun. More On My Way Of Looking At Things I don't ask women for permission to do things, and I don't look to them to lead what's going to happen.
I used to kind of watch what they were doing, and take cues on how to act. Now I do and say what I want, and look for cues from her so I know when to bust her balls. I spent a long time learning how to get phone numbers from women, only to realize that this wasn't the same as success.
Then, I learned how to get women to come over to my house, only to realize that this wasn't the same as success. I finally realized that I have to lead the way the entire time - just like in ballroom dancing.
I have to know where we're going, and lead the way the entire time. But my most important realization is that THIS IS MY REALITY, AND SHE IS A GUEST. Not the other way around. If a woman tries to play a game with me, put me off, give me an excuse, etc. I've started laughing out loud at them.
At first, they don't know what's going on but then I say something like "Cummon what, are you kidding? Give me a break. I never get upset at them or let them get to me emotionally this is key, because if they sense that they've found a button, they'll use it over and over again.
As my friend Eric once said "YOU'RE IN MY REALITY NOW. If I like them, and later they prove to be someone that really amazes me, then this will be a possibility. My guess is that strong, exceptional, interesting men who are in control of themselves and their realities are as rare for women as super hot women are rare for men. See where I'm going with this?
Said differently, "Why do so many men settle for average or worse looking women? I mean, I know quite a few ass- kicking men - but this is because I've literally spent years finding and making friends with them. Most women aren't lucky enough to run across one. And when they do, they usually mess it up by being a bitch or uninteresting. So they just settle for whatever the best option is at the moment. And they often wind up getting comfortable in the process.
I mean, think about the plot of most romance novels: Woman meets wild man, woman tames man and lives happily ever after with her new well behaved BOY. So keep this in mind when you're interacting with women.
If you could be in the room with me during my interactions with a new woman that I'm interested in, you'd most likely be thinking "This guy is funny as hell but he's really pushing it.
I mean, he's on the borderline of saying something that's just too damn arrogant. But wow, the woman just seems to get more and more into him as this goes on By staying cocky and funny, women will laugh their asses off, get frustrated that you're not playing to them, and finally crack and show that they like you this girl actually asked me to meet her. By the Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women ©, All Rights Reserved.
If you're just a plain old run of the mill jerk, then none of this will work. The 'assholes' who get laid usually have an angle money, fame, whatever that they mix with the assholeness.
Mean, self-centered people with no social attractiveness are usually out of luck. So keep in mind the all-important ingredient: Humor.
NOTHING works for me like humor mixed with arrogance. I also want to mention once again that I'm very flexible, and in many situations, I will begin to do very sweet and thoughtful things for a woman - just on my terms.
My goal is to be the most fulfilling lover that she's had. Mix all this up with some special sauce, and you have the recipe for hot women that love to have sex with you and love you as a person as well because you're interesting to them.
Remember, women are not linear, logical creatures. If you do things that make sense, they will do things that don't make any sense at all. If you do things that don't make any sense at all, then women will often do what you want them to do. It's just that you have to know exactly WHICH things to do that don't make sense.
Make sense? On Being A Man There is a lot controversy around the differences between men and women. My perspective is that men and women are different in many ways, and that they usually respond differently to different types of communication. And as un-politically correct as this might sound, I believe that most women respond very strongly to 'masculine' men. The more confident, arrogant, and dominant I've acted, the more women have Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women ©, All Rights Reserved.
I'm not talking about hitting a woman over the head and dragging her to your cave, Bubba. And now that I've thought about it a lot, and interviewed dozens of women about this topic, I've realized that weak men are generally not attractive to women. Women may demand things, whine, act like a pain, but it's usually all a test of one sort or another. If you're weak and shy and submissive, get over it.
Start walking a little taller, acting a little more self centered, and taking what you want. Now, I have to be careful here. I want to make sure you don't start acting like an 'asshole' to women. The masculine man says "No" to a woman calmly. The Asshole say's "No" to a woman in an angry tone. How To Tease How To Speak Woman When I first met one particular girl, I took her hand when she got into the car and held it for a few seconds then took it away saying "No hand holding this early" as if it were her idea then at lunch, I put out my hand for her to take it, and then when she went to take it, I moved it before she touched me then did it again and again saying "No, really This was teasing and teasing.
And then when she finally gave up I gave it to her. Idea is that she's into me and she's the aggressor. One part of this is me doing something holding her hand and then accusing her of doing it "no hand holding this early". This kind of behavior, sending mixed messages, and flirting doesn't really make sense to most men, but to women it's magic.
Also, some women really get intrigued if you 'figure them out' early on in the game and have their number and then just 'laugh at how cute they are' when they do things. This gets them all freaked out, as they feel like you're in control and they don't know what to do next this makes them nervous as they don't have any POWER OR AMMO!
They love this, as men are hardly ever in control. And they secretly want someone who is. and start kissing their ass! The idea is to use it to bust on them, not to be understanding.
I also tell women early on that I think that they'll make a nice 'friend. and now he's talking about being 'just friends! Doesn't he like me? Doesn't he want me like all the other guys?
never get too into them or they'll get right into their old games, etc. Another interesting observation that I've made is that women only understand CODE, not direct language. The metaphor that I use is that women are like the Enigma machines on Russian submarines. These machines were able to transmit messages to each other, but also able to change the codes they used each time. Women are much more interested in giving and getting subtle hints.
If you say to a woman "I really like you" it won't be as effective as saying to them "You really like me" in a teasing way. Do you understand? I speak in metaphor and story, talk about feelings and longings, speak code, and try to never speak directly.
Let me give you a few more examples: Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women ©, All Rights Reserved. Or, you could try this Next time you're alone with a new woman, stand up, take their hand, and pull them up to their feet. Then give them a hug, let go, and sit back down. After she sits again, say "I just wanted to hug you.
While cuddling, smell her neck and tell her how good she smells and don't stop. Within a few minutes she'll be telling you how hot she's getting. Two different paths to the same outcome. It's just that one happens to work about a hundred times better than the other. Men like to go out hoping to 'get laid. The more unplanned things seem, the better. For instance, she happens to wind up in my your bedroom and you happen to be massaging her, smelling her, etc.
If you want to increase your chances of success with women, create situations that lead to these situations. Another fun thing I do to demonstrate to women that I'm savvy and know the language is to interpret gestures and expressions and then comment back as if they had said something.
So for instance, if a woman looks at someone walking by and then wrinkles up her nose and gets that "Gross" look on her face, I might respond with "That's what I was thinking. I'm pretending like she actually said "Gross" to me. Or if a woman takes my hand, I might say "Oh, really? Notice: Do not start ACTING like a woman now that you know this. This technique is to be used sparingly and only to let a woman 'know that you know' and not as your main approach to women.
Many men make the mistake of learning how women act, then IMITATING them all the time. This is not what you want to do, trust me. Humor Here's how I mentally approach meeting a new woman: I'm cocky and funny, I steal their lines, I tease them, and I don't ever give them a break. In my opinion, the one most important skill, no matter your looks, height, age, or income - is humor. I don't care if you're four feet tall and have one eye.
If you can make women laugh consistently and get those good feelings flowing through them, they'll love you. So I did a bunch of reading on the internet to find the best books, and I bought about 5 or 6 of them. He said that most of being funny is the CHARACTER and not the jokes.
Most of the guys that I meet who want to learn to meet women are working on the 'jokes' in their life and not the 'character. I tried to learn all kinds of lines and B. It finally dawned on me that women were not really that concerned with all of that… they wanted a particular CHARACTER. Now that I have created this CHARACTER for myself, things are all different.
Women now call me. They pursue me. They want to be around me. Good question. Now, I do better Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women ©, All Rights Reserved. But this guy is just a machine. These women are hot! By the way, there were a few times I busted up laughing at some of the suggestions you gave.
I began practicing some of your CandF techniques and I began to meet more women and get some phone numbers along the way so life was great. I was at the gas station and met this woman. We started talking it up and I was using your CandF techniques. Eventually we exchanged numbers and went on our way. I waited a few days to call and when I finally did, she told me she was just thinking about me and was about to call.
Anyway, we set up a time to meet later that night and go out for a drink. I kept the conversation light and funny and she kept on laughing and coming back for more. I told her I had some where to be in about an hour so we had to get going and then I was totally blown away when she asked if I would like to hang out at her place and get a massage until it was time for me to go. I accepted and lets just say, I received more than a back massage in that 1 hour time span.
I just want to say thank you Dave, and would like to share the story with others to encourage them to get out there and forget all their fears. So I decided to move on, order your DYD book, and follow the advice in there. I focused more on the funny, with just enough cocky to give me an edge. Well, A. the ex found out about this, and suddenly became interested in me again. So, to make a long story short, A. and I got back together and have a better relationship than we ever had before.
This girl is the love of my life, and I thought that I had lost her forever. To all the gentlemen who may be reading this who have not ordered the book yet, what the hell is your problem? Get it! It may just change your life. Peace out.
There were so many things in it I realized before, but I never believed before I read your book. Then I thought about it and realized that way you said guys should act is the exact same way my friends who score a lot act.
She pulled me away for a private dance and after the song was over she asked me if it was good. She snickered and still wanted to know what I did. I went back out to my friend and he asked how was it, and said I was gone forever.
I said it was all free and he was shocked. It was about closing time and since my friend drove I was waiting on him. He said it was time to go and just as we were getting up that girl I got free things from said just wait. The bar closed and she came over with 4 of her friends. She then took me by the waist and pulled me out the back door to her car. Her, her four friends, and I went to her place.
She again asked me what I did and told me that for every word I would say, her friends and her would do something kinky this was a test. She now calls me every other weekend and still wants to find out about what I do, and to hook up with Mr. Sexy, ME. May your open mindedness and pursuit of excellence never cease, because it has inspired and changed me. I thank you. My story: For most of my life, I allowed a mental pattern of being shy toward women to dominate my mindset. After finishing the book I knew what I had to do about it, I had to change my thinking, and I knew I had to rewire my subconscious programming of limiting beliefs.
Using the techniques Dave suggested, I started on that immediately, but in the meantime I was anxious to try out the other tools I learned from the book, so I used them on the Internet where I previously had pretty dismal results from women.
I feel like Hugh Hefner because previously I only ever saw one woman at a time and that was on rare occasions when I was lucky enough to find a date. I bought the book expecting to get tips on becoming better with women. I do affirmations everyday and I like myself now. After doing the affirmations, something remarkable happened…I started avoiding those things that made me not like myself, and I started doing those things that made me like myself more.
And guess what? The more I liked myself, the more the fear I had of women started to go away. Thanks Dave! The more that I use the attitude and tips that you wrote in your book, the more women respond to me. Who knew that you could actually learn to be more successful with women from a book?
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Picture this scenario…. Not only does it help you with women, but also with your outlook in life. Once you understand how the simple principles work, you will project confidence without the use of props.
It will come naturally. The best thing about the principles explained inside the book is that they all work when you are single or when you are married. Be a challenge, have standards and screen girls, be confident, be playfully cocky. A must-read for men. The more I use the attitude and tips that you wrote in your book, the more women respond to me.
Who knew that you could actually learn to be more successful with women from a book? And your two bonus reports are truly amazing. I just read your whole book last night, and I never felt so enlightened in all my life. There were so many things in it I realized before, but I never believed before I read your book.
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To summarize, if you become too predictable, you will become uninteresting to a woman. Intelligence is sexy IF it's used in a way that's interesting to her. Incidentally, stuff that fulfills needs that most women just plain don't have. Bushy eyebrows are a no-no. So it follows that if women are so in tune with body language, you might as well get some of the basics together so you're transmitting the right message.They pursue me. If you are always asking "Well, what do you think I should do? Humor is just plain powerful with women. Mental rehearsal is the next best thing to physically doing something. David DeAngelo shares relationship advice in this article about why men get triggered and what to do about it to help you succeed in your relationship. She pulled me away for a private dance and after the song was over she asked me if it was good. What they want is a challenge… something that keeps their interest, double your dating online pdf.